new year old problems

as for “ringing in the new year” congrats to everyone that had a wonderful 2010, heres wishing to another terrific year. for the rest of you, condolances and lest all hope this ones better eh?
up coming delema; to move or not to move
pros and cons with both, hard choice either way.
I can move with the husband and only see him on the weekends AFTER about 5 months of training or not move and hang out with the 3 friends I do have and spoil the nieces and nephew on the weekends. I find myself torn between a place I havent been welcomed to but dont want to leave, or going to what I would consider a stranded island. what would you readers do? stay at the dismal current local with the safety net of a few friends or leave on an unknown trail as the ones I have close to me are left in the dust behind the tired tires of my mini van? Starting fresh has always been my specialty, it came with the childhood. Now the choice is mine within this cruel world suposedly to be of the adult type, I am not convinced that part is real yet. If I choose not to move, I will get another 2 semesters with the beloved bee eff effs and sisters without the happiness of seeing my new husband on the weekends. If I choose to move, I get to know that my husband is only 5 minutes away once he is permitted to have weekend leave, have zero friends, and have to move again in about a year. Either way I am still moving again so that point is irrelavent. I will continue to argue with myself until the utmost point of near no return that a choice will have to be made by.
Thanks for watching =]

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